Recommendations for Eulogies and Kaddish

Eulogies and Kaddish

The close family of the deceased must plan in advance who will deliver eulogies in the cemetery, and notify the speakers as much in advance as possible, so that they can devote suitable time for thinking and planning. Try to avoid having people speak for too long. Keep in mind that people at athe funeral stand on their feet for a long time, sometimes in crowded conditions and in difficult weather conditions. It is advisable to appoint someone close to the mourners to handle the matter and be in touch with Hevra Kadisha. During the funeral, friends sometimes ask to add a few words. This can be appropriate and moving, but can also embarrass the family. It is also recommended that mourners planning to recite Kaddish at the funeral who are not used to reciting the prayer practice the proper pronunciation of the words.